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  1. 1.  Desire GORHAM was born 02 Apr 1644, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts (daughter of John GORHAM and Desire HOWLAND); died 30 Jun 1700, Yarmouth, Barnstable County, Massachusetts.

    Desire married John HAWES 07 Oct 1661. John (son of Edmund HAWES and Lucy) was born Bef 1640, Duxbury, Plymouth County, Massachusetts; died 11 Nov 1701, Barnstable, Barnstable County, Massachusetts. [Group Sheet]

    Children:
    1. Joseph HAWES was born 16 Jul 1673, Yarmouth, Barnstable County, Massachusetts; died 16 Nov 1752, Yarmouth, Barnstable County, Massachusetts; was buried , Yarmouth, Barnstable County, Massachusetts.

Generation: 2

  1. 2.  John GORHAM was born Bef 28 Jan 1621, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England (son of Ralph GORHAM); died Aft 05 Feb 1676, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts; was buried 05 Feb 1676, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts.

    John married Desire HOWLAND 06 Nov 1644, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts. Desire (daughter of John HOWLAND and Elizabeth TILLEY) was born 13 Oct 1623, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts; died 13 Oct 1683, Barnstable, Barnstable County, Massachusetts. [Group Sheet]


  2. 3.  Desire HOWLAND was born 13 Oct 1623, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts (daughter of John HOWLAND and Elizabeth TILLEY); died 13 Oct 1683, Barnstable, Barnstable County, Massachusetts.
    Children:
    1. 1. Desire GORHAM was born 02 Apr 1644, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts; died 30 Jun 1700, Yarmouth, Barnstable County, Massachusetts.
    2. James GORHAM was born 28 Apr 1650, Marshfield, Plymouth County, Massachusetts; died 1707, Barnstable, Barnstable County, Massachusetts.


Generation: 3

  1. 4.  Ralph GORHAM was born 1575 (son of James GORHAM and Agnes BERNINGTON); died 1643.

    Notes:

    Moved to America, 1645.

    Children:
    1. 2. John GORHAM was born Bef 28 Jan 1621, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England; died Aft 05 Feb 1676, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts; was buried 05 Feb 1676, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts.

  2. 6.  John HOWLAND was born Abt 1592, Fen Stanton, Huntingtonshire, England (son of Henry HOWLAND and Ann Margaret AIRES); died 23 Feb 1673, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts.

    Notes:

    From: The Great Migration Begins:

    ORIGIN: Fenstanton, Huntingdonshire
    MIGRATION: 1620 on Mayflower
    FIRST RESIDENCE: Plymouth
    FREEMAN: In the "1633" list of Plymouth freemen John Howland is near the head of the list, among the councillors [ PCR 1:3]. In the 6 March 1636/7 list of Plymouth Colony freemen [ PCR 1:52]. In the Plymouth section of the 1639, 1658 and 29 May 1670 lists of Plymouth Colony freemen [ PCR 5:274, 8:173, 197].
    EDUCATION: His inventory included "1 great Bible and Annotations on the 5 Books of Moses" valued at ?1 and "Mr. Tindall's Works, Mr. Wilson's Works, 7 more books" valued at ?1.
    OFFICES: Plymouth Colony Assistant, 1 January 1632/3, 1 January 1633/4, 1 January 1634/5 [ PCR 1:5, 21, 32]. Deputy for Plymouth to General Court, 1 June 1641, 28 October 1645, 1 June 1647, 7 June 1648, 8 June 1649, 4 June 1650, 5 June 1651, 3 June 1652, 7 June 1653, 7 March 1653/4, 6 June 1654, 1 August 1654, 8 June 1655, 3 June 1656, 1 June 1658, 4 June 1661, 1 June 1663, 1 June 1666, 5 June 1667 [ PCR 2:16, 94, 117, 123, 144, 154, 167, 3:8, 31, 44, 49, 63, 79, 99, 135, 214, 4:37, 122, 148].
    In charge of the fur trading post at Kennebec, 1634 [ MD 2:10-11]. Committe on the fur trade, 3 October 1659 [ PCR 3:170]. In the Plymouth section of the 1643 Plymouth Colony list of men able to bear arms (as "John Howland Sen.") [ PCR 8:187].
    ESTATE: In the 1623 Plymouth division of land John Howland received four acres as a passenger on the Mayflower [ PCR 12:4]. In the 1627 Plymouth division of cattle John Howland, his wife Elizabeth Howland, John Howland Junior and Desire Howland were the first four persons in the fourth company [ PCR 12:10].
    In the Plymouth tax list of 25 March 1633 John Howland was assessed 18s., and in the list of 27 March 1634 ?1 4s. [ PCR 1:9, 27]. John Howland was a Purchaser [ PCR 2:177].
    On 4 December 1637 "forty acres of land are granted to Mr. John Howland, lying at the Island Creeke Pond at the western end thereof, with the marsh ground that he useth to mow there" [ PCR 1:70]. On 5 November 1638 the "island called Spectacle, lying upon Green's Harbor, is granted to Mr. John Howland" [ PCR 1:102, 110, 168]. Granted six acres of meadow "at the North Meadow by Jones River" [ PCR 2:49].
    In his will, dated 29 May 1672 and proved 6 March 1672/3, "John Howland Seni[o]r of the town of New Plymouth ... being now grown aged, having many infirmities of body upon me," bequeathed to "John Howland my eldest son besides what lands I have already given him, all my right and interest to that one hundred acres of land granted me by the court lying on the eastern side of Taunton River"; to "my son Jabez Howland all those my upland and meadow that I now possess at Satuckett and Paomett"; to "my son Jabez Howland all that my one piece of land that I have lying on the southside of the mill brook"; to "Isaac Howland my youngest son all those my uplands and meadows ... in the town of Middlebery and in a tract of land called the Major's Purchase near Namassakett Ponds which I have bought and purchased of William White of Marshfield"; to "my said son Isacke Howland the one half of my twelve acre lot of meadow that I now have at Winnatucsett River"; to "my dear and loving wife Elizabeth Howland the use and benefit of my now dwelling house in Rockey Nooke in the township of Plymouth ... with the outhousing lands ... uplands and meadow lands ... in the town of Plymouth ... excepting what meadow and upland I have before given to my sons Jabez and Isacke Howland during her natural life"; to "my son Joseph Howland after the decease of my loving wife Elizabeth Howland my aforesaid dwelling house at Rockey Nooke"; to "my daughter Desire Gorum 20s."; to "my daughter Hope Chipman 20s."; to "my daughter Elizabeth Dickenson 20s."; to "my daughter Lydia Browne 20s."; to "my daughter Hannah Bosworth 20s."; to "my daughter Ruth Cushman 20s."; to "my grandchild Elizabeth Howland the daughter of my son John Howland 20s."; "these legacies given to my daughters [to] be paid by my executrix"; to "my loving wife Elizabeth Howland my debts and legacies being first paid, my whole estate," she to be executrix [ MD 2:70-73, citing PCPR 3:1:49-50].
    The inventory of "Mr. John Howland lately deceased" was taken 3 March 1672/3 and totalled ?157 8s. 8d. [ MD 2:73-77, citing PCPR 3:1:51-54]. After the inventory, the appraisers noted that "the testator died possessed of these several parcels of land following:" "his dwelling house with the outhousing, uplands and meadow belonging thereunto lying at Rockey Nooke in the town of New Plymouth," "a parcel of meadow at Jones River meadow," "the one half of a house and a parcel of meadow and upland belonging thereunto lying and being at Colchester in the aforesaid township," "a parcel of meadow and upland belonging thereunto lying near Jones River bridge in the town of Duxburrow," "one house and 2 shares of a tract of land and meadow that lyeth in the town of Middleberry that was purchased by Captain Thomas Southworth of and from the Indian Sachem Josias Wampatucke," and "2 shares of a tract of land called the Major's Purchase lying near Namassakett ponds" [ MD 2:77, citing PCPR 3:1:54]. (See also PCR 5:108, 110, 127.)
    In her will, dated 17 December 1686 and proved 10 January 1687/8, "Elizabeth Howland of Swanzey ... being seventy nine years of age" bequeathed to "my eldest son John Howland the sum of ?5 ... and my book called Mr. Tindale's Works and also one pair of sheets & one pair of pillowbeers and one pair of bedblankets"; to "my son Joseph Howland my stilliards and also one pair of sheets and one pair of pillowbeers"; to "my son Jabez Howland my featherbed & bolster that is in his custody & also one rug & two blankets that belongeth to the said bed & also my great iron pot & pothooks"; to "my son Isaack Howland my book called Willson on the Romanes & one pair of sheets & one pair of pillowbeers & also my great brass kettle already in his possession"; to "my son-in-law Mr. James Browne my great Bible"; to "my daughter Lidia Browne my best featherbed & boulster two pillows & three blankets & a green rug & my small cupboard one pair of andirons & my lesser brass kettle & my small Bible & my book of Mr. Robbinson's Works called Observations Divine & Moral & also my finest pair of sheets & my holland pillowbeers"; to "my daughter Elisabeth Dickenson one pair of sheets & one pair of pillowbeers & one chest"; to "my daughter Hannah Bosworth one pair of sheets & one pair of pillowbeers"; to "my granddaughter Elizabeth Bursley one pair of sheets and one pair of pillowbeers"; to "my grandson Nathanael Howland (the son of Joseph Howland) ... my lot of land with the meadow thereto adjoining ... in the township of Duxbury near Jones River Bridge"; to "my grandson James Browne one iron bar and one iron trammell now in his possession"; to "my grandson Jabez Browne one chest"; to "my granddaughter Dorothy Browne my best chest & my warming pan"; to "my granddaughter Desire Cushman four sheep"; "my wearing clothes linen and woollen" and the residue to "my three daughters Elisabeth Dickenson, Lidia Browne and Hannah Bosworth to be equally divided amongst them"; "my loving son-in-law James Browne and my loving son Jabez Howland" executors [ MD 3:54-57, citing BrPR 1:13-14].
    BIRTH: Say 1592, son of Henry and Margaret (_____) Howland of Fenstanton.
    DEATH: Plymouth 23 February 1672/3 "above eighty years" [ PCR 8:34].
    MARRIAGE: Plymouth by about 1624 Elizabeth Tilley, baptized Henlow, Bedfordshire, 30 August 1607, daughter of JOHN TILLEY . She died at Swansea 22 December 1687, aged eighty [ SwVR 27].
    CHILDREN:
    i DESIRE, b. say 1624; m. by 1644 John Gorham (eldest child b. Plymouth 2 April 1644 [ MD 5:72]).

    ii JOHN, b. Plymouth 24 April 1627; m. Plymouth 26 October 1651 Mary Lee [ PCR 8:13].

    iii HOPE, b. Plymouth 30 August 1629; m. by about 1646 John Chipman.

    iv ELIZABETH, b. say 1631; m. (1) Plymouth 13 September 1649 Ephraim Hicks [ PCR 8:8]; m. (2) Plymouth 10 July 1651 John Dickerson [ PCR 8:13].

    v LYDIA, b. say 1633; m. by about 1655 James Brown.

    vi HANNAH, b. say 1637; m. Swansea 6 July 1661 Jonathan Bosworth [ SwVR 23].

    vii JOSEPH, b. say 1640; m. Plymouth 7 December 1664 Elizabeth Southworth [ PCR 8:25], daughter of THOMAS SOUTHWORTH .

    viii JABEZ, b. about 1644 (deposed on 19 July 1680 aged 36 years [ SJC #1915]); m. by 1669 Bethiah Thatcher, daughter of Anthony Thatcher (eldest child b. Plymouth 15 November 1669 [ PVR 668; NYGBR 42:154-57]).

    ix RUTH, b. say 1646; m. Plymouth 17 November 1664 Thomas Cushman [ PCR 8:25], son of Thomas Cushman.

    x ISAAC, b. Plymouth 15 November 1649; m. by 1677 Elizabeth Vaughn, daughter of George Vaughn [ TAG 23:24-26].

    ASSOCIATIONS: Brother of HENRY HOWLAND and Arthur Howland.


    COMMENTS: In his list of passengers on the Mayflower Bradford tells us that John Howland was one of the "manservants" of JOHN CARVER [ Bradford 441]. During a particularly bad storm on the crossing John Howland (characterized by Bradford as "a lusty young man") went above deck and was swept overboard, but

    it pleased God that he caught hold of the topsail halyards which hung overboard and ran out at length. Yet he held his hold (though he was sundry fathoms under water) till he was hauled up by the same rope to the brim of the water, and then with a boat hook and other means got into the ship again and his life saved. And though he was something ill with it, yet he lived many years after and became a profitable member both in church & commonwealth [ Bradford 59].
    In his 1651 accounting on the family of John Carver, Bradford reported that "[h]is servant John Howland married the daughter of John Tilley, Elizabeth, and they are both now living, and their eldest daughter hath four children; and their second daughter one, all living, and other of their children marriageable" [ Bradford 444].
    In an undated deposition we learn that in April 1634 John Hocking came to Kennebec and challenged the rights of the Plymouth men to their exclusive trade in that place. Mr. John Howland, in charge of the trading post, went out in their bark with several other men and warned Hocking off, but was taunted and defied. Howland "bid three of his men go cut his cable [Hocking's anchor]," but the flow of the stream was too strong and Howland called them back and added Moses Talbot to the crew. Hocking, seeing that their intent was to cut the cable, "presently put his peice almost to Moyses Talbott's head, which Mr. Howland seeing called to him desiring him not to shoot his man but take himself for his mark saying his men did but that which he commanded them and therefore desired him not to hurt any of them, if any wrong was done it was himself that did it and therefore called again to him to take him for his mark saying he stood very fair, but Hocking would not hear nor look towards our bark, but presently shooteth Moyses in the head, and presently took up his pistol in his hand but the Lord stayed him from doing any further hurt by a shot from our bark himself was presently struck dead being shot near the same place in the head where he had murderously shot Moyses" [ MD 2:10-11].
    BIBLIOGRAPHIC NOTE: Because of the multitude of descendants of John Howland, through all ten of his children, the publication of the first five generations of descent from John Howland will occupy many volumes. Elizabeth Pearson White has prepared the first two volumes in this series: John Howland of the Mayflower: Volume 1, The First Five Generations, Documented Descendants Through his first child Desire Howland and her husband Captain John Gorham (Camden, Maine, 1990) and John Howland of the Mayflower: Volume 2, The First Five Generations, Documented Descendants Through his second child John Howland and his wife Mary Lee (Camden, Maine, 1993).
    In her first volume White argued that John Howland lived for several years in Maine, and that three of his children were born there. Robert S. Wakefield has gathered the evidence that this could not have been the case [ MD 42:15-16].


    "JOHN, Plymouth, of the ever honored passeng. wh. came in the Mayflower 1620 the latest surviv. exc. John Alden, among the adult males; tho. a minor d. of lsaac Allerton, Mary, wh. m. Elder Thomas Cushman, liv. more than 78 yrs. after the landing. He was a serv. or attend. of Gov. Carver, yet he is in rank the thirteenth signer of the Covenant, 11 Nov. and was reckon. as part of the fam. of Gov. Carver, wh. gave occasion, no doubt, to the vain tradit. prevail. for the last century and a half that his w. Elizabeth was d. of the Gov. who, perhaps, never had a ch. certain. brot. none. Both the Gov. and his w. d. in the first season, and Howland, at the time of their arr. 28 yrs. old, m. Elizabeth d. of John Tilley (wh. with his w. a. soon after landing, leav. only this ch.), we are hardly permit. to doubt, early in 1621, as his ch. John, b. 24 Feb. 1627, and Desire are nam. at the div. of cattle 1627, and he seems to have counted as many heads at the partit. of lds. 1623-4. For correction of the long prevalent error, that he m. a d. of Gov. Carver, we are indebted to Bradford's Hist. formerly part of the N. E. Library of Prince, in the tower of O. s. ch. at Boston, discov. 1855, in the Library of the Bp. of London at Fulham. He was an assist. 3 yrs. so early as 1633-5, and often a rep. and d. 23 Feb. 1673, aged more than 80, and his wid. d. 21 Dec. 1687, aged 80. His will, of 29 Mar 1672, names ten ch. we may hope in the order of b. of each sex, but we are ign. of the exact dates or sequence of any, exc. that John is by it call. eldest, and Isaac, youngest, Jabez, and Joseph; Desire, wh. was [[vol. 2, p. 480]] the first ch. m. 1643, John Gorham and d. 13 Oct. 1683 Hope, w. of John Chipman, as early as 1646; Elizabeth m. 13 Sept. 1649 Ephraim Hicks, and 10 July 1651, John Dickenson; Lydia, w. of James Brown of Swanzey; Hannah, m. a Bosworth, Nathaniel, as by the scrupulous writer of the life of the late John Howland, p. 11, is said and in his will she is nam. Bosworth; and Ruth, m. 7 or 17 Nov. 1664, Thomas Cushman, s. of the Elder. "

    John married Elizabeth TILLEY Bef 1624, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts. Elizabeth (daughter of John TILLEY and Joan HURST) was born 1607, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England; died 21 Dec 1687, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts. [Group Sheet]


  3. 7.  Elizabeth TILLEY was born 1607, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England (daughter of John TILLEY and Joan HURST); died 21 Dec 1687, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts.

    Notes:

    Came on Mayflower with parents. Left as a 13-year old orphan when her parents died the first winter.


    http://www.mayflowerhistory.com/Passengers/ElizabethTilley.php

    Elizabeth Tilley was born in 1607 in Henlow, Bedfordshire, the daughter of John and Joan (Hurst)(Rogers) Tilley. She came with her parents on the Mayflower in 1620. Both her parents died the first winter at Plymouth, leaving her orphaned at the age of 13 in the New World. She married to Mayflower passenger John Howland around 1625 at Plymouth.

    Children:
    1. 3. Desire HOWLAND was born 13 Oct 1623, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts; died 13 Oct 1683, Barnstable, Barnstable County, Massachusetts.


Generation: 4

  1. 8.  James GORHAM was born 1550, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England; died 1576.

    James married Agnes BERNINGTON 1572. Agnes was born 1553, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England; died 1603, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England. [Group Sheet]


  2. 9.  Agnes BERNINGTON was born 1553, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England; died 1603, Benefield, Northamptonshire, England.
    Children:
    1. 4. Ralph GORHAM was born 1575; died 1643.

  3. 12.  Henry HOWLAND was born 1564, Fen Stanton, Huntingtonshire, England; died 17 May 1635, Fen Stanton, Huntingtonshire, England.

    Henry married Ann Margaret AIRES 24 Apr 1600, Ely, Cambridgeshire, England. Ann was born 1569, Fen Stanton, Huntingtonshire, England. [Group Sheet]


  4. 13.  Ann Margaret AIRES was born 1569, Fen Stanton, Huntingtonshire, England.
    Children:
    1. 6. John HOWLAND was born Abt 1592, Fen Stanton, Huntingtonshire, England; died 23 Feb 1673, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts.

  5. 14.  John TILLEY was born Bef 29 Dec 1571, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England; died 1620/21, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts.

    Notes:

    Came on Mayflower with wife Joan and daughter Elizabeth.


    http://www.mayflowerhistory.com/Passengers/JohnTilley.php

    John Tilley was born in 1571 in Henlow, Bedford, England, and married the widowed Joan (Hurst) Rogers on 20 September 1596 in Henlow. He, his wife Joan, and his youngest daughter Elizabeth all came on the Mayflower to Plymouth in 1620.

    John and his wife both died the first winter at Plymouth, orphaning the 13-year old Elizabeth Tilley in the New World. Elizabeth would later marry to Mayflower passenger John Howland.

    From: The Great Migration Begins:
    ORIGIN: Leiden, Holland
    MIGRATION: 1620 on Mayflower
    FIRST RESIDENCE: Plymouth
    BIRTH: Baptized Henlow, Bedfordshire, 19 December 1571, son of Robert and Elizabeth (_____) Tilley [ TAG 52:203].
    DEATH: Plymouth 1620 in the first general sickness [ Bradford 446].
    MARRIAGE: Henlow 20 September 1596 Joan (Hurst) Rogers. She had married (1) Thomas Rogers.
    CHILDREN:
    i ROSE, bp. Henlow 23 October 1597; no further record.

    ii JOHN, bp. Henlow 26 August 1599; no further record.

    iii ROSE, bp. Henlow 28 February 1601/2; no further record.

    iv ROBERT, bp. Henlow 25 November 1604; no further record.

    v ELIZABETH, bp. Henlow 30 August 1607; m. about 1625 JOHN HOWLAND .

    ASSOCIATIONS: John Tilley was the elder brother of EDWARD TILLEY , who also died in the first sickness.


    COMMENTS: "John Tilley and his wife, and Elizabeth their daughter" were passengers on the Mayflower [ Bradford 442]. "John Tilley and his wife both died a little after they came ashore. And their daughter Elizabeth married with John Howland and hath issue as is before noted" [ Bradford 446].
    John Tilley joined the expedition of 6 December 1620 along the coast with nine others, under the leadership of Miles Standish [ Young's Pilgrim Fathers 149].
    BIBLIOGRAPHIC NOTE: In addition to the items noted in the sketch of EDWARD TILLEY , Robert Leigh Ward in 1985 published some additional biographical information on John Tilley [ TAG 60:171-73].

    " JOHN, Plymouth, [[vol. 4, p. 303]] perhaps br. of Edward, came with w. and one ch. Elizabeth in the Mayflower, 1620, and all (it was believ. by Shurtleff in Geneal. Reg. I. 52) d. next winter. But his d. Elizabeth wh. m. John Howland outliv. all her fellow passeng. exc. three wh. were younger. "

    John married Joan HURST 20 Sep 1596, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England. Joan was born 23 Mar 1568, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England; died 1621, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts. [Group Sheet]


  6. 15.  Joan HURST was born 23 Mar 1568, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England; died 1621, Plymouth, Plymouth County, Massachusetts.

    Notes:

    Came on Mayflower with husband John Tilley and daughter Elizabeth.


    http://www.mayflowerhistory.com/Passengers/JoanHurst.php

    Joan Hurst was born in 1567/8 in Henlow, Bedford, England, the daughter of William and Rose Hurst. She married first to Thomas Rogers in 1593 (not related to the Mayflower passenger Thomas Rogers). With her husband Thomas, she had a daughter Joan, baptized on 26 May 1594 in Henlow. When Thomas died, around 1594 or thereabouts, she remarried to John Tilly in 1596.

    John and Joan (Hurst)(Rogers) Tilley came on the Mayflower in 1620, bringing with them daughter Elizabeth. Joan, along with her husband, died the first winter at Plymouth, orphaning their 13-year old daughter Elizabeth in the New World. Elizabeth would later marry to Mayflower passenger John Howland.

    Notes:

    Married:
    "She had married (1) Thomas Rogers."

    Children:
    1. 7. Elizabeth TILLEY was born 1607, Henlow, Bedfordshire, England; died 21 Dec 1687, Swansea, Bristol County, Massachusetts.